Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Thursday, August 6, 2009

The Returnee

I have been coming and going these past months. Why? I really can't tell but all i know is that one thing or the other always brings me back to Blogsville. Na one thing or the other dey always bring people back to something abi? Well, that was what brought me back. One thing! But this one thing that brought me back pass one thing o.

I had wanted to upload her picture but as shakara just full my laptop head, i say make i just talk am like that. I got talking with Ella Njubigbo and like play like play, we talk Blogging join. I shame as i show her my blog. E don tay wey bros update last.

I just sharp sharp say make i tell una say i don come back.

I would show this beautiful and talented actress the road to Blogsville and stay behind. I've got to create time and come back to my lovely online family. I hope that LG, GeeBee, Aloted, Oyin, Darius, Dammy, Angel, Remi and all the rest of the Mummies and Daddies on Blogsville have not given birth to too many children [Newbies]?

Have i missed much?

I love you all!

Sunday, November 23, 2008

The Real Man

Providing a concise answer to my earlier question of what makes a real man is a big quest but one that is badly needed. Men have always defined their manhood by their roles; the function they perform for their families and society. But the fundamental nature, the essence of man can only be perceived from three perspectives- priority, position and assignment.

Man was not created first because he is better but because of his purpose. God wanted him to manifest his nature and to be responsible for all that he created and asked to take care of. Man came directly from the earth because he was designed to be a solid and dependable foundation of human family.

The man was not only designed to be the foundation but also the first to be positioned on earth and of course in the garden- a place of heaven on earth, a place of God’s continued presence and a place of training. A phenomenon God wanted him to replicate or spread all over the world.

And lastly, his assignment. The man is supposed to be a visionary and a leader, teacher, cultivator, provider and protector.

He is not supposed to look up to status and personal achievement as the measure of manhood but rather to look up to God’s standard.

To be a real man is to discover, understand and fulfil these basic aspects of purpose.

Marriage

One interesting stage in marriage is when the kids begin to arrive. The usual unending love and sultry texts and chats are gradually replace...